Your Marriage Is Our Problem!

A union of two souls

• Marriage is considered to be one of the most holy unions between two people. It is the obvious next step considered after courtship or dating.

• The formal definition of marriage states that it is a socially recognized union or ritual that consists of ‘spouses’ that establishes rights and obligations between them, between them and their children and between them and their in-laws.

• The definition of marriage though varies according to different cultures and religions; the basic essence remains the same. It is the exchange of vows or promises between two souls to love, protect and care for each other till death do them apart.

Everything that has form eventually decays

• The recent onset of globalization has forced people to change their mentality. Many previous beliefs and morals now seem either redundant or impractical by most of the generation.

• Compromise seems to be a synonym for weakness, for most professionals. Be it in the workplace or at home, relationships are falling apart.  Technology is an important tool in the form of communication.

• In the current digital age, we are extremely dependent on technology. Most of our social communications are mainly in the form of texts or emails, etc. Thus, human interaction is slowly decreasing day by day.

• This decrease in actual social interactions is the main reason for the breakdown of relationships in the current age.  Thus, from friendships to relationships, all seem to come today with an expiry date.

• The United States of America has the highest divorce rate among the first world countries.  Among them, the state of San Jose records the maximum number of divorced couples. Thus,couples counseling San Jose is quite a popular destination for most married couples to solve their marital issues.

Divorce is the new marriage

• The insane number of divorce rates recorded in San Jose, California is mainly attributed to the use of technology. A large number of tech savvy people are present in most of the couples. 

• The common complaint of all these couples’in couples counseling and therapy San Jose is lack of communication between the spouses.

• Most of the complaints used to only weigh heavy on men. Earlier, men used to handle more high profile jobs especially in the technological sector. But in recent times it has been seen with the rising economy and more women entering high profile jobs, both women and men have become obsessed with technology.

• Due to lack of time and need to sustain a broken marriage, many of the couples are resorting to couples therapy. It is advantageous in a way as it provides a third person view on an otherwise moot argument.