Bid Goodbye To Your Marital And Family Problem With Counselling

The basic definition of marriage is that it is a ritually or socially recognized legal union between two people which establishes the rights and obligations between the two people involved, between the people involved and their in-laws and between the people involved and their children. The definition varies between different religions but the basic principal is that it is an institution that acknowledges interpersonal and sexual relationship between two people.

In modern times, due to stress and various other psychological factors, working out a marriage happily for years can be a very tricky thing. Sometimes, without the proper guidance and help, a marriage can fall apart due to several reasons. This explosion can be sometimes friendly with both parties going their separate ways happily or sometimes be ugly with both parties being involved in a very long and bitter divorce procedure. If you are worried that your marriage might be failing due to some kind of personal and psychological reasons, you don’t need to worry your head off. You can always go for Couples Therapy San Jose.

Couples therapy or marriage counseling is the process of counseling the parties involved in a marital relationship to cope with the troubling differences between them and get out of the repeating pattern of distresses. This is a rather ‘here and now’ sort of counseling as it involves new and upcoming coping strategies. The session duration varies as short term counseling can take 1-3 session while the long term ones take 12-24 session.

If you and your spouse have opted for Couples Counseling San Jose, then before choosing the counselor, here are a few tips that you should remember –

·        The therapist you are choosing should not be biased to any one party. They should always help you finding solution to your marital problems rather than getting out of it if things seem to be rocky

·        Your therapist should always make you feel comfortable and respect you. They should honour your feedback and understand your perspective

·         If the therapist insist that there is only one way to work a marriage, move on from the person

·        The Marriage Counseling San Jose therapist should always have an open mind and should never lay out their own ideals or values on you

·        Set a concrete set of goals you and your partner want achieve when you visit your therapist. This will help you both find direction.

If you are looking for marriage counseling services or just christian family counselor, then you should call upon the services of Ms Lia Huynh, LMFT. She will help you with your entire emotional marital and family problem. The number at which she can be contacted is 408-599-1413.